This is a new approach to relationships which goes beyond analyzing them to changing them, even if one partner isn't interested. Using a solution-oriented approach, the book shows readers how to break free of old patterns, improve their sex life, increase feelings of love and closeness and get over past hurts. To help the process of analyzing the past and plotting the future, the authors summarize key points and action steps for each change. They share the stories of friends and therapy clients who have tried these techniques for improving relationships, aiming to inspire readers to be creative in transforming their lives.
A wonderful guide that gives every couple hope and direction. If you are a man or a woman who is tired of complaining and wants solutions, you've picked up the right book! --Ellen Kreidman, author of Light His Fire and Light Her Fire